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May 13, 2025

Try This If You’re Feeling Worried

Toronto life coach Lisa Murphy shares tips on dealing with worries by identifying what's in your control.

If you’re feeling full of worry and anxiety, take a moment to write down all of the things that you’re concerned about. Clearly identifying these is a first step in the FranklinCovey Circle of Influence exercise. Watch this video to find out more.

Next, divide the things that you’re worried about into a list of things that you have control or influence over, and a list of things that you have no control or very little control over.

Ask yourself: “What is one thing that I could do today, however small, relating to something that I have control over?” Do it.

If there are things that you can potentially influence the outcome on, write down a few steps to make that happen and decide when you want to take action on those.

Then, cross out items on the list of things that you have no or very little control or influence over, and decide to let them go. Your time and mental energy are best spent on things that are in your control.

If you’re on the run, just keep asking, “What’s in my control?”

Talking to a warm and affordable coach like me can also help, so book a free strategy session today!

Not sure whether coaching can help you? Read 9 Signs That You Might Need Life Coaching to see if any apply to you.

Learn more by booking a free coaching consultation with me. My clients can confirm that coaching can help you gain confidence, combat negative self talk and achieve goals that truly fulfill you. Learn more in my Frequently Asked Questions About Coaching section.

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I’m a certified Life & Wellness Coach in Toronto who empowers women to create more intentional, fulfilling and joyful lives. In addition to studying at Canada Coach Academy, I have done mindset coaching to transform my own life. From a career pivot to launching @50ForwardClub, getting sober and embracing daily mindset work, I understand the benefits of coaching firsthand.

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